Finally, a Faith-Based Tool That Takes the Guesswork Out of Online Dating
Widowed and later divorced, I assumed that having a companion in my life was a thing of the past. But when I stepped back into the dating world, I quickly saw the problem:
Match, eHarmony, and other apps help you find people nearby, but they don’t tell you if someone shares your faith, values, or long-term vision.
After my divorce, I spent over two years researching, “At our age, what makes love last?”
I developed the M.A.G.I.C. Framework and the S.A.F.E. Digital Dating Coach — the tool I wish I had when I was trying to figure out if someone was truly a fit, saving time and potential heartache.
After locating prospective people to date, the SAFE app takes over. Based on your input, it guides and prompts you with questions to determine if there’s a SAFE match based on your values, needs, interests, and much more.
You can. And Version 1.0 is free.
This isn’t another dating app — it’s “online dating insurance” that works with ANY platform (Match, eHarmony, Christian Mingle or even meeting someone at church).
Think of S.A.F.E. as your personal dating coach that:
Stop Wasting Time on Incompatible People
“I used to spend weeks messaging someone only to discover we wanted completely different things. S.A.F.E. helps me identify compatibility issues in the first conversation.” — Sarah, 58
Making Decisions with Your Head AND Your Heart
S.A.F.E. doesn’t eliminate feelings — it ensures your emotions are supported by wisdom and facts.
Date with Confidence, Not Desperation
When you know exactly what you’re looking for and how to evaluate it, dating becomes purposeful instead of desperate.
Protect Your Heart from Unnecessary Pain
Identify red flags and incompatibilities before you’re emotionally invested.
Honor God in Your Dating Decisions
Every aspect of S.A.F.E. is grounded in biblical principles for relationships and wise decision-making.
Learn and Improve Over Time
Track what works and what doesn’t, refining your criteria and approach with each experience.
“S.A.F.E. is like having a wise friend who asks all the questions I forget to ask when I’m excited about someone new. It’s saved me from several relationships that would have been disasters.” — Margaret, 62, Widow
“As a divorced dad, I needed help figuring out compatibility with someone who would fit into my existing family situation. S.A.F.E. helped me ask the right questions upfront.” — Robert, 56, Divorced Father
“I was so tired of dating men who said they were Christians but didn’t live like it. S.A.F.E. helped me develop questions that reveal true spiritual maturity.” — Linda, 61, Never Married
S.A.F.E. isn’t a dating app — it’s an evaluation tool that works WITH any dating platform. Think of it as your personal dating coach, helping you make wise decisions about the people you meet anywhere.
Yes, S.A.F.E. uses your MAGIC worksheet answers to create your personalized evaluation criteria. This ensures the tool is customized to YOUR specific values and needs.
Absolutely. S.A.F.E. stores your criteria locally and never shares your personal information. It doesn’t connect to or share data with dating platforms.
S.A.F.E. is designed for users of all technical skill levels. If you can use email or basic smartphone apps, you can use S.A.F.E. Plus, we provide complete video tutorials and support.
S.A.F.E. is completely FREE as part of my ministry to help mature Christians find godly relationships.
Yes! S.A.F.E. works for evaluating compatibility with anyone you meet — through church, friends, community activities, or online.
That’s valuable information! S.A.F.E. teaches you that the willingness to engage in meaningful conversation is itself a compatibility indicator.
At our age, we don’t have time to waste on relationships that can’t work. We’ve already learned the hard way that:
S.A.F.E. Version 1.0 is completely FREE because this is my ministry. But don’t wait — every day you delay is another day you might be making dating decisions without the wisdom and tools you need.
