Work with a Christian Dating Coach

Personalized Guidance on Your Relationship Journey

Walk This Path with Experienced Guidance

While the Dating MAGIC book provides a comprehensive framework, many find that personalized coaching accelerates their journey and provides tailored wisdom for their unique situation.

Coming soon, we’ll offer one-on-one coaching with certified Dating MAGIC coaches who combine:

  • Deep understanding of the MAGIC Framework
  • Biblical counseling credentials
  • Personal experience with senior dating challenges
  • Heart for ministry to Christian singles over 50
 

Prayerful Coaching That Respects Your Story

This isn’t therapy. It’s not dating advice with a timer ticking.
This is spirit-led guidance from someone who’s walked through heartbreak and found the courage to trust again.

In our one-on-one coaching, we pray first.
We listen deeply. We reflect on the blessings and the lessons.
And we use the “I” of MAGIC—Intentional Relationship Building—to help you step confidently toward love, trust, and spiritual companionship.

We’re here to be encouragers, not experts. Companions, not critics.
And friends, not fixers.

We’re not here to sell you a path—we’re here to walk it with you.
Our goal is to serve, encourage, and help you prepare for the love that still lies ahead.
This is a ministry, not a business. And if it blesses you, we’ve done our job.

Christian dating coach

Meet Your Head Coach: G. Paul Janke

Author | Christian Life Coach | Certified Attachment Specialist

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Today, I coach men and women over 50 with a deep understanding of grief, transition, and the desire to love again, with God's guidance.

I’ve been trained in faith-based relationship recovery and spiritual communication.

We walk with clients as friends and guides—not therapists—helping them discover truth, clarity, and connection through the M.A.G.I.C. framework, and “G” God-Guided Discernment.

Our Coaches & Community Become Your Accountability Team: We are adding other qualified male and female coaches, certified in the MAGIC framework, which will improve dating outcomes and lead to real connections.

Please join our waiting list and save (we’ll extend a 15% Discount for the first 25 brothers and sisters who join our waiting list – No Obligation for signing up)

Our Mission is Simple: To help you stop waiting and start walking into the relationship God prepared for you.

“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” — Ecclesiastes 4:12 NIV.

What to Expect from Dating MAGIC Coaching

Get a clear picture of how Dating MAGIC Coaching empowers you to navigate the Christian dating landscape with confidence and discernment. Discover the personalized support, scriptural insights, and practical strategies you’ll gain to transform your dating journey.

Personalized MAGIC Assessment

A comprehensive evaluation of where you stand in the MAGIC framework—highlighting your spiritual strengths, emotional growth areas, and relationship blind spots. We use this to shape your dating pathway with clarity and grace.

Digital Dating Strategy

A tailored roadmap to help you navigate online dating with purpose and spiritual alignment. Whether you’re healing from past hurt, building a faithful profile, or re-entering the dating world, this plan helps you stay true to who God created you to be—without feeling lost or overwhelmed.

Regular One-on-One Sessions

Private video coaching sessions focused on the real decisions and emotions you’re navigating. We combine faith-based insights with practical, next-step support—so you’re never walking this road alone.

Prayer Support

Dedicated, personal prayer for your dating journey — whether you’re asking for discernment, healing, courage, or clarity. You’ll be prayed for by a fellow believer who’s walked this road.

Profile Review and Feedback

I’ll help you create or refine a dating profile that’s honest, faith-filled, and truly represents who you are—no fluff, no sales pitch. Just the real you, ready to be seen and valued.

Message Response Guidance

Not sure what to say in that first message? Or how to respond after “Hey beautiful”? I’ve got you. I’ll help you craft messages that feel authentic, clear, and even a little bit fun—while keeping your heart protected. This includes a coaching favorite list of conversation starters to meet new people.

Discernment Support

Sometimes it’s hard to tell if someone is God-sent or just good at texting. I’ll help you spot red flags, honor your values, and move forward with clarity—not confusion. We’ll align your heart with a safety-net to protect you, at every turn.

Attachment Style Coaching

Your attachment style shapes how you connect, pull away, or pursue love. I’m certified in attachment-based coaching and will help you understand your style so you can build stronger, God-honoring relationships.

Pricing

Coaching Options (Coming Soon)

Choose the option you are interested in and fill out the form below

First Step Discovery

30 Minute Schedule Session – Is coaching right for you?

FREE

Complete Readiness Reflections exercises prior to meeting. It invites you to share your story, faith journey, and dating hopes in a way that helps Paul understand how to walk beside you. We’ll start with a prayer asking for direction.

Foundation Package

After completing your free discovery session and custom coaching strategy, this 3-session package helps you reset emotional patterns, deepen your spiritual clarity, and begin dating with purpose.

$225

Complete MAGIC Journey

Initial assessment plus ten weekly sessions covering the entire framework

$750

$650 if paid in full

Ongoing Support

Bi-weekly or monthly sessions to review progress after completing Foundation and MAGIC Journey programs

$75

per session

Review Areas to build the following:

“The dating journey after 50 presents unique challenges and beautiful opportunities. I’m passionate about helping fellow believers navigate this season with confidence, clarity, and a firm foundation in Christ.”

Join the Journey

Join the Coaching Waitlist

Be among the first to know when Dating MAGIC Coaching launches. Waitlist members will receive:

  • Early access to scheduling
  • Exclusive 15% discount on your first coaching package
  • Free 30-minute introductory consultation
  • Complimentary “Preparing Your Heart” guide

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9-10